Silent Suffering: Wisp Survey Reveals Midlife Women Need Better Support for Vaginal and Sexual Health

Written by Kathleen Morrison

When it comes to menopause and midlife women’s health, too many women are still suffering in silence.

A new national survey from Wisp, the largest pure-play women’s telehealth company in the U.S., and Attest reveals that nearly 7 in 10 women experience some kind of vaginal discomfort — including dryness, itching, or pain during sex — yet most aren’t getting the care they need.

Instead of seeking treatment, 37% of women “just deal with it,” and 16% avoid sex altogether.

That silence isn’t just uncomfortable — it’s costly for women’s confidence, relationships, and wellbeing.

The Hidden Impact of Vaginal Dryness and Menopause Symptoms

According to Wisp’s Menopause Survey, nearly 40% of midlife women report vaginal dryness, itching, or discomfort during sex. One in five experience these symptoms frequently, but over a third (35%) don’t seek any professional help.

It’s a reminder that even though vaginal health issues are common, open conversations about them are not.

Why Women Don’t Talk About Intimate Health

One of the clearest findings from the survey is how uncomfortable many women still feel bringing up sexual or vaginal health concerns with healthcare providers.

• 48% of women feel only somewhat comfortable — or not comfortable at all — discussing intimate issues with doctors.
• 18% said their concerns were dismissed or not taken seriously.
• Only 42% consult an OBGYN, while 20% rely on online research instead of professional guidance.

This communication gap leaves many women without answers — and without relief.

The Connection Between Menopause, Fatigue, and Low Libido

Sexual wellbeing doesn’t end at menopause — but it can get complicated.

The Wisp survey found:

• 41% of women have experienced a decrease in libido over the past five years.
• 35% cite “lack of energy” as their biggest barrier to intimacy.
• 33% point to body changes, and 28% mention relationship strain.

Even with these challenges, 41% of women say they still feel “in control” of their intimate health — but nearly a third feel frustrated.

The Disconnect Between Symptoms and Solutions

Here’s the part that might be the most surprising: while 70% of women currently experience vaginal or sexual health symptoms, only 37% use over-the-counter products, and just 7% use prescription treatments.

That means the majority of women are going untreated — even though support is out there.

When 14% of respondents said they feel ignored, it reflects a bigger truth: our healthcare system still doesn’t prioritize women’s sexual wellbeing.

How Wisp Is Breaking the Silence

At Wisp, we believe every woman deserves access to trusted, judgment-free care.

Menopause and perimenopause are natural life stages — not conditions to be endured quietly. By normalizing conversations about vaginal health, we can empower women to seek solutions that make them feel comfortable, confident, and connected again.

With affordable online support, discreet treatment options, and expert-led education, Wisp helps women take charge of their health — without shame or stigma.

You Deserve Better Than “Just Dealing With It”

If you’ve been putting up with discomfort, dryness, or low libido — you’re not alone, and it’s not “just part of getting older.” There are safe, effective treatments available that can help you feel like yourself again.

Visit Wisp to learn more about menopause care, vaginal dryness treatments, and sexual health solutions from real medical professionals — all available online.

Because your intimate health deserves attention, not silence.